“As a mother of two young children, it was extremely difficult to cope and manage the world around me after the devastating and drastic changes that occurred in my life. Dr. Derman helped me to find and utilize the strategies necessary to work through the difficult and undesirable situations that life had handed me. Her empathy, knowledge, and sense of humor helped me turn a horrible situation that seemed hopeless, into a manageable and more desirable way of thinking and way of life. I am eternally grateful for the compassion she showed and skills and strategies she provided for me to utilize!”
M.D.
“There was no place that allowed me to express what I was feeling, understood the depth of grief and sadness that was now a part of me, and allowed me to dare imagine some light at the end of this painful journey than the chair across from Debby. She saw me through the earliest days of grief and walked the path with me in recognizing my resilience, encouraging my growth and showing me the courage of moving forward. Five years later I can't imagine what I would have done without Debby's counseling, mentoring and empathy.”
S.B.
“ I lost my husband to a sudden heart attack. When I first came to Debby, I was profoundly grieving. I was walking around, just doing what I needed to do to take care of my children. I knew I needed to talk to a professional, but was apprehensive: it's not easy bearing your soul to someone about your innermost pain...but then I met Debby! Right from the start she was gentle, caring, and understanding. Debby was able to guide me through my pain, and helped me clarify my thoughts and feelings. She gave me a clear picture when I could not do that for myself. I would leave our sessions knowing that I could make it another day. I knew I was with someone who really understood me. I have so valued our time together!”
D.B.
“I just wanted to say 'thank you'. You have created a place where I can express my feelings and feel free of judgment. This is where I can speak about my children, my friends, my family, my pain, and feel safe. I was comfortable with you from the very beginning. Getting to know other 9-11 widows was incredibly healing. I have learned from you that my future will not be as painful and lonely as it is now. Thank you for all the time, energy, and love that you give us.”
S.B; 9-11 Widow
“The stories and examples that Dr. Derman has shared, as well as her great spirit, are just what the doctor ordered.”
H.H.
“Debby's group gave me more than I ever could have imagined. Debby's generosity of time and spirit is incredible. She offers insight and advice with humor. She is also forthcoming in sharing her own story, and in doing so, proves to be a shining example of someone who has experienced so much tragedy and not only survived but has thrived. She is an inspiration to us all.”
D.D.
“I am so grateful that you reached out to us after 9-11. From the first time we met, you made me feel comfortable. I knew that I could express my feelings and my anguish to you, and that you would listen with compassion. You always seem to know the right questions to ask to make me really think. You always had confidence in me, and helped me see that I could survive this terrible tragedy. We are all so lucky to have found you. Thank you for all that you have done for us.”
S.C. 9-11 Widow
“Debby, When I first met you, I was lonely, lost, and afraid. You were determined to get us through this terrible experience. You held our hand as we stumbled along, and felt every one of our words with your whole heart. You have always given us encouragement at the times that we feel the weakest. Thank you, Debby. I could not do this without you.”
D.E. 9-11 widow
“Debby made us comfortable from the very first meeting. We could spill out our anger, fear, and pain. Our meetings were a safe haven for us, and I looked forward to seeing this wonderful woman every week. Her love and encouragement simply overflowed to all of us. I know that I will be bonded forever to Debby, and for that I am very grateful.”
G.O. 9-11 widow
“Debby, Remember me, the young 9-11 widow who was afraid to leave her house with her newborn? Guess what! That young woman is gone, and I owe it all to you! You have infused me with strength and confidence that I never knew I had. You've helped me climb mountains of sadness, and have given me a new view of hope, happiness, and new plans. You have renewed my spirit, and I am forever indebted to you.”
T.B. 9-11 widow
